Honestly, it wouldn't bother me so much if it weren't so heavy handed and one-sided. And pretty obviously gendered.

I'm not saying anyone needs to shun Admiral Benden for having a libido, but it's definitely noted that not a single person places ANY disapproval of the relationship on him. If we had one moment where Emily's like "next time, don't think with your cock, dude", I'd probably be a lot more forgiving. :-D